This is the nonsense up with which we shall no longer put.
The Traditional Rule:
You must never end a sentence with a preposition. It’s grammatically incorrect. Instead of “What are you talking about?”, you should say “About what are you talking?”
Why It’s Broken:
Because no one — and I mean no one — speaks like that outside of a Victorian séance or a 17th-century play. The “no prepositions at the end” rule is a Latin import — one that doesn’t even fit English. We aren’t speaking Latin. We’re speaking English. And in English, putting a preposition at the end is natural, elegant, clear, and human.
Absurdities and Contradictions:
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“This is the book I told you about.” ✅
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“This is the book about which I told you.” 🚨 Sound the pretentiousness alarm.
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“Who are you talking to?” → Natural.
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“To whom are you talking?” → Grammatically blessed. Socially cursed.
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“That’s the hill I’m going to die on.” → Epic. Clear. Human.
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“That’s the hill on which I’m going to die.” → No one talks like this unless they wear powdered wigs.
Real-World Examples:
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“This is what I came for.”
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“That’s the guy I was waiting on.”
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“She’s someone I look up to.”
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“We don’t know what we’re dealing with.”
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“They gave us nothing to stand on.”
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“It’s a mystery I can’t put up with.”
British vs. American Variants:
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Americans tend to be more relaxed with terminal prepositions.
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Some British formal writing still clings to the rule, but spoken English across both regions happily breaks it.
The Reform Proposal:
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Abolish the rule. Completely. Fully. Irrevocably.
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Let prepositions sit wherever clarity, rhythm, and tone demand — beginning, middle, or end.
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Teach formality and tone awareness, not artificial constraints.
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Judge grammar by usefulness, not outdated structure mimicry.
How It Would Work in Practice:
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“The person I gave it to.” ✅
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“The email I was referring to.” ✅
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“The hill I will die on.” ✅
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“The code I couldn’t log in with.” ✅
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“The sentence I ended with a preposition — and nobody died.” ✅✅✅
Final Word: End With Pride.
The idea that a preposition must never end a sentence is one up with which we shall not put. Let’s put the rule where it belongs — at the end of the line. And then end the line… with a preposition.